Death Cheater® Day - Date of joining the disabled community
Death Cheater® Day - Date of joining the disabled community
I lost my right leg due to DV.
When I first lost my leg, that was the thought that haunted me. I felt weak when I had once been strong. I was afraid—afraid I’d never rise above it, afraid I’d never recognize myself again. I felt lost… incomplete.
But over time, I realized something powerful: my thoughts shape my reality. I stopped focusing on what I had lost and started wondering, what could I do with my new leg?
I had to work hard to find my strength again—to silence the fear of what people might think of me, and instead focus on what I thought of myself. I learned that healing starts with how we speak to ourselves.
No, my prosthetic doesn’t make me a superhero.
But it helps me do super amazing things.
I’m a domestic violence survivor.
I rebuilt my life from the ground up, with my disability—and with my daughter beside me. I went on a week-long retreat at Camp Freedom. I walk to work. I take care of my home as a single mom. I hold everything together after my assault… even when it’s hard.
And it was hard. I got lost again for a while. I started drinking.
But today—I’m sober. I’m rebuilding a peaceful, sober life for us. I feel accomplished. I feel alive.
I started hiking for my mental health and realized that having a strong body and moving is so important as an amputee. I became an ambassador for Proteor USA and I am part of their PAAC to mentor amputees
And most of all?
I feel powerful.
SnapBack - Old Dominion.
I went to Las Vegas for the 40th amputee coalition and met so many new amputees.
Hiking.
I love ice cream sundaes.
I love how it supports our amputee community!